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This is why I subscribe, the political content is nice but the personalization is what matters.

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YES!!!

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Agreed 💯

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I'm glad this was the first thing I read waking up this morning

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Sam, you and me. I’m listening to remembrances of Jimmy Carter, and this was a beautiful tie-in

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In the Celtic tradition that space between the here and here after is called a "thin place". I've always liked that term to define a location where the distance between heaven and earth is so close you can feel the other's presence.

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It’s also called “the veil,” and the veil is thinnest at Samhain, pronounced “sa-wan.” Samhain occurs on October 31: Halloween.

Beautiful piece, Chris. And I think you are exactly right: there is only a thin space, perhaps a “veil,” that separates the living from the dead.

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Perfect. The ‘thin place’ - I hope.

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My mom passed last night. This was beautiful to wake up to. Thank you! 🙏

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Condolences to you and your family on the loss of your mom.

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Kind of you. Thank you 🙏

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Wishing you peace and solace from your memories of her.

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Thank you 🙏

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Thanks Chris. A very moving tribute, and a welcome break from the awful and absurd stuff that engulfs us these days.

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Beautiful tribute Chris. Thank you for sharing. I would think we all have those moments when someone we have loved and who is no longer there, pops up. In a memory or a feeling. I know I do. Happy New Year.

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Beautiful, Chris!

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What a wonderful essay, clearly from your heart, Chris. Thank you for sharing this.

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Thanks Chris. The most beautiful, thoughtful thing I’ve read in a long time

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My Dad is gone 12 years and we were not close until the last decade of his life. But, I miss him every day. Pray that I will get to visit him soon. But, as he said, he was old enough to witness a Jesuit Pope and a Black President

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Wonderful. Tears were pricking behind my eyelids as I read this luminous piece. Thank you.

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This was beautiful - I appreciated the sense of Ken that you created for the rest of us - his presence in life and in death - and your way of coming to terms with it - thank you - makes me like you more :)

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Beautifully expressed! I am a Californian who has lived in central Italy for 56 years now with a daughter on the faculty at Penn State. I follow the worrisome situation in the States, enjoy your posts immensely and admire your writing.

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I, too woke up here in Olympia,Washington looking out at the Puget Sound… got a cup of coffee….cleared my phone briskly of over night advertisements and came to Chris Cillizza…. my first thought “ hooray back to some normalcy”….but NO Dear Chris You took myself and I am sure so many others down a SPIRITUAL path of remembrance of the best of FATHERS here on Earth”….modeled after The Father of All Fathers …. This is the True Faith come to live amongst us….

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Thanks so much for this, Chris. Your story about grief is incredibly inspiring. There is something kind and gentle about the land in North Texas.

I grew up in Ponder, Texas--just a little southeast of Montague County--and when I was in my mid-teens, my family moved to Denton. After 17 years in Chicago, I live in Michigan now, and your photos took me home.

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A great piece. I call myself Spiritual..grew up half catholic by extended family amd Methodist by birth. This reminds me of my Dad. Died inout house 26 years aggo. My husband had a similar relationship with dad as you had with your wifes dad. Those puctures speak to me about how my dad lived for country places. I truuly believe we are near our loved ones thru that same thin veil. My best friend died of cancer in our house. I feel her hand on my arm periodically. She knocks things over as we used to do together in all the years of our lives. I totally get your sense here. It says something about Ken....but more about your openness to the world and what comes after!!

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